Setbacks-Bad Decisions, Job Loss, Divorce, and - or Health Problems by Melvin Feller
Melvin Feller In life, we all experience setbacks-bad decisions, job loss, divorce, health problems. Even countries around the world have experienced an economic setback due to the recession. However, we all experience setbacks, no one desires to take a step back. The good news is that a comeback is possible for anyone. Minor setbacks throw us off for a few hours but others are much more momentous and really throw us in a tailspin. While we will all experience roadblocks, we will vary in how we handle them. Some of us have the resilience to just pick up the pieces and travel on. Others find it challenging to let go. Either way, how do we learn from the tough times? At the outset, we will all undoubtedly experience typical feelings of frustration, sadness, disappointment or anger. How we handle those feelings differentiates us from each other. In other words, how do we redirect on what happened and gain a greater sense of self-awareness? We need to think about...